In life you think that you made the greatest friends that you could ever find. But in reality, you can never just find that great friend. Like that saying "friends come and go" and little by little I am realizing that.
I thought I had friends that the group that I hang with I are my friends but I been learning that they have been doing stuff without me. Hearing little bits and pieces here and there of them hanging out and not including me really hurts. It stings straight to the heart. Even finding out the night before of a party they were all together doing stuff. Maybe I am jumping the gun and making up things in my mind. But I wish they had included me and just called me. Every time I think I found friends, I get hurt in the end. Little do they know that I have been going through so much and they don't see it or even care? That my family has and going through an ordeal that not even my family back home knows. Only certain people who still care about my family know but so far away for me to lean on and just cry.
Am I a bad friend or a bad person? Do I not go out of my way to help my friends out? Maybe it's just me, because I know that I like to keep to myself, that my family time is important and I am not just doing whatever I please to do. I don't know, maybe because of what is going on that I am feeling alone. I do have my husband and I am blessed to have him at my side and just be my friend and my support. But it will be nice to just have lady friends who you can just talk and hang with and be called upon to just hang out!
I know I am a good person and hopefully I can truly meet a really good friend who will be my best friend and with that I sadly give Just My 2 Cents!
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Monday, September 6, 2010
Conclusion to the Emergency Room...
Thank you for all of your concerns for my daughter. My daughter had bad cramps that had her doubled over in pain and looking pale with tears in her eyes, I knew that it was bad. We ladies know that being a woman is a hard job. Not to mention, our friend who visits every month. Well, I rushed her to the emergency room thinking that it could be serious. Now if you know me, I just don't go to the emergency room for every little pain. But, when you see your child in tears, mommy protective mode kicks in and you want the best for your child. Anyways, before I start rambling on and on, everything is alright and it was just a minor thing that I could have taken care of at home. After waiting in the emergency room for three hours and finally hearing that it was just a minor pain and take Motrin will just take care of it all. I explained to them that something was wrong because my child was doubled over in pain and pale looking with tears, which they said that Motrin and rest will take care of it. Boy, I was annoyed and irritated already that I didn't care what they had to say. I just wanted to go home. I told them to give me her release forms and I will take her to the real doctors who give a damn and not get annoyed by people who even waste their time coming to the emergency room.
I already have an appointment on Tuesday for her and I know that we will get to the bottom of it. I just wished that they didn't let us wait so long for just 10 minutes of their time. Also, someone asked for me to blog when I see the bill. Lucky for me, I don't have to see a bill. My husband is a soldier, so the military pays for our medical care and lucky we have it. My blog will be "bleeping" so much over a bill that only gave us 10 minutes to see a doctor and with that is JUST MY 2 CENTS!
I already have an appointment on Tuesday for her and I know that we will get to the bottom of it. I just wished that they didn't let us wait so long for just 10 minutes of their time. Also, someone asked for me to blog when I see the bill. Lucky for me, I don't have to see a bill. My husband is a soldier, so the military pays for our medical care and lucky we have it. My blog will be "bleeping" so much over a bill that only gave us 10 minutes to see a doctor and with that is JUST MY 2 CENTS!
The movies KILLER...
Okay, something you need to know about me. I love movies! I can quote lines and I know my actors, okay some of them. My all time favorite actors are Brad Pitt & Brendan Frasier, and my favorite actress are Sandra Bullock and Catherine Zeta Jones! We have family movie nights in my house. The kids get their blankets and pop popcorn and we all settle in the living room and watch one or two movies. We have been doing this since the girls were little and now my oldest is 17 and she still loves this. This are the moments that are specials.
This movie is awesome and it is worth the watch and I give it…JUST MY 2 CENTS!
Now this will be my first review on something, and I had to blog on this movie. It is awesome! It is a comedy, romance, and fighting all in one. Not to mention, Ashton Kuchter is hot & sexy. Go Demi Moore! Nice pick! Not going to tell you how things go in the movie, but he goes shirtless in one part and wow nice body. He worked out big time! (Smiling!)Katherine Heigl was awesome too! At first she was a little uptight, but into the movie she got tough, you go girl! Show that woman power! I admire her qualities and what she brings to the screen. Soon she will be one of my all time favorites. Keep making awesome movies!
My Memorial Weekend...
Well, it seems as the days pass it doesn't seem I will be able to catch up with my blog September challenge. It looks like I am 2 days behind. This Memorial Day weekend has been so busy that blogging wasn't on my to-do list.
On Thursday, we had the chili cook-off with the husband's unit.
On Friday, getting groceries and items to make for my niece’s birthday on Saturday, plus a three hour long wait at the emergency room, that I blogged about!
On Saturday, my niece’s birthday which was a lot of fun and I will post picture soon. Had a great time with my family and friends. I got to meet new people and I am blessed that people want to be a part of our island community. We stayed pretty late, the guys ended the night with poker of Texas hold-em. Which the husband did good I might say-so myself. Oh, I don't play, only for fun with no money involve. Playing for money makes me nervous! (Laughing)!
Now today, Sunday...my day to veggie out & just stay in bed. It was a good time, snuggling with the honey and just staying in bed. But you know the one thing that I hate when you do this. If you sleep to long you get a bad headache! Now what is up with that? They say you need rest and when you have too much it's a pain in the head. Well, at least for today Motrin got paid and that's JUST MY 2 CENTS!
On Thursday, we had the chili cook-off with the husband's unit.
On Friday, getting groceries and items to make for my niece’s birthday on Saturday, plus a three hour long wait at the emergency room, that I blogged about!
On Saturday, my niece’s birthday which was a lot of fun and I will post picture soon. Had a great time with my family and friends. I got to meet new people and I am blessed that people want to be a part of our island community. We stayed pretty late, the guys ended the night with poker of Texas hold-em. Which the husband did good I might say-so myself. Oh, I don't play, only for fun with no money involve. Playing for money makes me nervous! (Laughing)!
Now today, Sunday...my day to veggie out & just stay in bed. It was a good time, snuggling with the honey and just staying in bed. But you know the one thing that I hate when you do this. If you sleep to long you get a bad headache! Now what is up with that? They say you need rest and when you have too much it's a pain in the head. Well, at least for today Motrin got paid and that's JUST MY 2 CENTS!
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Emergency Rooms
Don't you just hate emergency rooms? I do, hate coming here! I am just sitting here waiting for them to call my daughter. They take their sweet time to call you to take vital signs, then have to wait again maybe for another 30 minutes to an hour for them to call you to go to a room, then wait another 30 minutes to an hour for the doctor. Then when you finally get to see a doctor, it's only a 10-15 minutes consultation with the doctor who just prescribe you some over the counter medicine like "MOTRIN" & then that's the last you see of doctor, next comes in a nurse with your discharge papers & your on the way!
Like really! What's the point of having an emergency room, when it should just be called a waiting room, that's all you do, is "wait!"
I really hate the emergency room & that's JUST MY 2 CENTS!
Islandiva
Like really! What's the point of having an emergency room, when it should just be called a waiting room, that's all you do, is "wait!"
I really hate the emergency room & that's JUST MY 2 CENTS!
Islandiva
Friday, September 3, 2010
My day today
Well from the look of it, I am a day behind on my challenge. My day today was filled to the brim of activities. Besides being a mom, wife, & running my house, I am also a CO-Family Readiness Group Leader for my husband's unit. I help & support families get ready for deployment & also they have the information when needed for their families.
Well, today we had a chili cook-off for the unit, besides being a good soldier; we wanted to see their cooking skills. So everyone had to make their best chili & it was judge by presentation, smell, taste, & ingredients that they use. It was such a good turnout, we had 16 entries & I was proud because my husband entered.
My husband's joy is cooking & he was a chef before he joined the Army for a 5-star hotel. You may wonder then why join the Army? We are from the island of Guam & its economy is based on tourist so if it drops the hotels hurt. So that's the story on the why. :)
As being the CO-FRG Leader I couldn't judge so I was delighted to see how people reacted to the chili he made. People were going for seconds & thirds, lucky we had an extra pot, because when we were near judging time he almost had none. So the three judges had to taste 16 samples & it was hard because by the end their stomachs were hurting. It was a lot of laughter and fun.
In the end, we were only suppose to have a first and second place winners, but we had a tie for second place so we had to break it & make a third place. But we had good fun and the unit had fun.
So even though I am late for my blog entry, I sit here with a stomach full of chili still and a fun-filled day and with that is Just My 2 Cents!
Well, today we had a chili cook-off for the unit, besides being a good soldier; we wanted to see their cooking skills. So everyone had to make their best chili & it was judge by presentation, smell, taste, & ingredients that they use. It was such a good turnout, we had 16 entries & I was proud because my husband entered.
My husband's joy is cooking & he was a chef before he joined the Army for a 5-star hotel. You may wonder then why join the Army? We are from the island of Guam & its economy is based on tourist so if it drops the hotels hurt. So that's the story on the why. :)
As being the CO-FRG Leader I couldn't judge so I was delighted to see how people reacted to the chili he made. People were going for seconds & thirds, lucky we had an extra pot, because when we were near judging time he almost had none. So the three judges had to taste 16 samples & it was hard because by the end their stomachs were hurting. It was a lot of laughter and fun.
In the end, we were only suppose to have a first and second place winners, but we had a tie for second place so we had to break it & make a third place. But we had good fun and the unit had fun.
So even though I am late for my blog entry, I sit here with a stomach full of chili still and a fun-filled day and with that is Just My 2 Cents!
Thursday, September 2, 2010
The September Challenge
I recently joined a challenge to blog everyday for the month of September & at the moment it is 10:21pm at night & I am running late on my first day of this challenge. I joined this challenge to challenge myself if blogging is something that I want to do.
So I know as of right now my thing I have to change in my trying to accomplish this challenge is to do this early in the day. Now with a 2 year old who wants to do everything and get into everything, now that is a bigger challenge for me. To see how I can sit for maybe an hour to type or work on ideas for my blog and have my 2 year old entertains. Now maybe it won't be so hard to do. I run a house, do the bills, run kids to & fro to wherever. So maybe I can do it, I am a woman right. Weren't we built to do many things & with that is Just My 2 Cents!
So I know as of right now my thing I have to change in my trying to accomplish this challenge is to do this early in the day. Now with a 2 year old who wants to do everything and get into everything, now that is a bigger challenge for me. To see how I can sit for maybe an hour to type or work on ideas for my blog and have my 2 year old entertains. Now maybe it won't be so hard to do. I run a house, do the bills, run kids to & fro to wherever. So maybe I can do it, I am a woman right. Weren't we built to do many things & with that is Just My 2 Cents!
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